The Adequate Preparation for


The Adequate Preparation,” underscores the paramount importance of making wise choices when selecting a life partner. It advocates for a thorough examination of potential partners’ mindsets, characters, words, and actions.

Feyikemi Oyewole auther of The adequate preparation for love


A platform dedicated to educating and empowering individuals in their pursuit of fulfilling marriages

Marriage is a profound commitment that demands preparation and dedication. For those seeking enduring relationships, adequate preparation and guidance are essential.

Recognizing the need for such preparation, I envision a platform dedicated to educating and empowering individuals in their pursuit of fulfilling marriages. This platform aims to:

  • Educate young individuals on marriage expectations, helping them prepare mentally for the journey ahead.
  • Provide guidance on choosing a life partner wisely, equipping individuals with the necessary knowledge and discernment.
  • Share insights on the relationship between love and marriage through consistent content on the platform.
  • Offer personal and anecdotal stories to inspire others, highlighting the beauty and rewards of marriage while emphasizing the importance of knowledge and understanding in nurturing relationships.
  • Serve as a comprehensive resource for individuals seeking to adequately prepare for marriage.


Test your Relationship Knowledge

The Quizzes encourages reflection on your relationship journey, emphasizing the importance of finding the right person for the right reasons, using questions to help you reflect on your relationship and yourself periodically.


A wrong choice will derail you for a very long time

In today’s society, I’m troubled by the prevalence of people settling for less in their relationships. It’s disheartening to witness individuals endure abuse or infidelity in their courtships, only to proceed with marriage despite knowing the inevitable consequences. Learn how to avoid those pitfalls, and get yourself educated and empowered in your pursuit of a fulfilling marriage


If we do not have love, wisdom & understanding will not manifest.

Love is often argued to be insufficient in marriage. You will hear the people you trust and that you believe have much wisdom say this. Do you have to believe? No. Pursue understanding by yourself to understand and come to the acceptance that love is enough. This means that when Patience, Kindness, Understanding, Forgiveness, Appreciation, Loyalty, Meekness, Humility, Faithfulness, Self-Control, Gentleness, Goodness, togetherness, Unity, Friendship, and much more are applied to any form of relationship as necessary and when needed, they will make your relationship thrive.

When a marriage fails, it’s not because love isn’t enough; it is because we have not applied the principles of love as we should. Rev. Funke Adejumo shared profound wisdom: “Life is not governed by miracles; life is governed by principles”.


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